22 Kasım 2011 Salı

Sounds Like

Today, I have shared my volunteer father project with some people who are mostly female.
That was awesome, they paid a lot of attention.


By the way, the most important point is the part of my wish.


I have a wish and a dream to become a volunteer father, who knows who will be my first volunteer son/daughter or family or woman...


It is more then a wonder, it is a good wish and a goodwill...


Sercan

8 Kasım 2011 Salı

Some Answers...

Some of my friends ask me how to take this idea real, I said I only need one more wish from you...
The one who wants to have a volunteer father is enough to make it real.


Just write me...

7 Kasım 2011 Pazartesi

I am a Volunteer Father

Why I became a Volunteer Father ?

When we had the chance to see life with our hearts, we can feel 21St Century is one of the most magnificent subjects for humanity, with communication, with understanding, with being real.
For me discovering the reality of life is my biggest deal, which I find endless and powerful.

Graduated as a mechanical engineer and worked as a process engineer for 5 years. My interest about communication and social issues gave me a chance to study for Communication Sciences program for 2 years.
While studying, I participated in social studies, developed social subjects and created social projects, then finally became a social designer.

It seems to be a big satisfaction for me which is still is, but there is a but…

One day, in my studies I have suddenly faced with a situation which changed my way of look to life. A child talked to me in a 100 % pure  way about himself, his family, his life and his parents…
It was so touchy to hear these and I questioned whether I have done something before to listen and done volunteering for kids around…

Being 35 years old and admitting my life on social studies has asked me for a decision some years ago having own kids.
Thinking on that considering the 21st century and my way of life, my own way, I decided to welcome kids as all my sons and daughters…

It was such a good point for me, and life helped a lot for my decision.

Today, I saw the life in a perspective of alternative life and alternative look in way of life.

This blog or we can say offer was created by me with this back round.
This blog with in the name of my self offers you something for you and for the kids.

Personally, I am a volunteer to be a father for you as a kid, for you as a parent who has a kid and for you who wants to have a kid.

It is a wish of being a father figure for a kid. You will be responsible to give your own decision as a kid or a parent of a kid or a potential parent of a kid.

Which means in basic words;

If you are a kid and want to have a father just write me and get in contact with me lets talk and I will be a volunteer to be your father. I will be able to see you in some ways to plan to do something together, to listen you and your feelings, share feelings as being a kid and as being a father.

If you are a parent who has a kid, I can spend time with you where ever you are as a family, I can listen your kid and make him feel that he /she has a father to assist him. It is out of laws and it is out of my control. You as a parent is the only responsible person to give decisions about your kid, I am just a volunteer father. It is good for you for your kid, for my self and finally for the whole humanity.

If you are a person who wants to be a mother and has her own kid, I can be the volunteer father. The decision is a commitment between you and me. The kid will know that he has a volunteer father with the agreement of you and me. The decisions for the kid about where he/she will live, which schools and disciplines he/she will follow is the only decision of the mother. I will be just a volunteer father.

There is lots of ways to live life.
Being a volunteer father is serving my wishes to make this real…

Life always has another way of living, if that was not like that nothing had been changed since the world be…